A real friendship is truly a blessing when we surround ourselves with girls whom we trust and that we can completely be ourselves! However, we know that it’s not easy to find someone that clicks well with us and grows with us while we are constantly evolving to a new person. Along the journey of growth, we lose some friends and gain some.
Justina and April are not the classic childhood besties. They knew each other a few years back and grew their friendship as they found out that they hold very similar beliefs and deep interest in beauty. They even thought of creating a product together!
The two share what it was like to see a different version of themselves through each other. They also talk about how both similarities and differences make this friendship stronger and how to maintain a friendship especially during covid when they can’t hang out much.
Read more to learn how they
- – switch roles between listener and advisor
- – set healthy boundaries
- – support each other’s growth
MEET THE GIRLs!
I’m Justinaa -
a full time makeup artist, part time girlboss
Years of experiences and true friendship taught me to be more tolerating and less judgemental of people. We are not flawless. No one is perfect so I choose to look at the good side of a person, not enlarge their flaws.
I usually take time to observe before open up to a new friend. I am careful with the circle of friends I choose to be around. Similar to how I choose which product to use. I actually took hours to read reviews before first using EyeMuse lenses 3 years ago. Now, I love it so much that I recommended EyeMuse to April and many other friends!
Blush Olive is my favourite.
My result is “Be My Valentine” girl. I think my style change overtime when I become more confident.
Aries
I’m April -
a traditional Chinese medicine practitioner, modern beauty acupuncturist
I am that kind of girl that keep my social circle rather private and small. Friends are family by choice. I do not have tons of friends, but when I do make a close friend, I keep that friend for life!
I don’t like feeling beholden to others or giving trouble to others. I believe that taking care of my own wellbeing is one of the key to maintain a good friendship. I appreciate my friends and grateful to see how we are always doing our best in life. And we know that we always have each other’s back no matter what happens in life.
Lilydream Grey is my favourite.
My result is “Be My Valentine” girl. I think my style change overtime when I become more confident.
Libra
4 Things to Do If You Want To Be a Good Friend
TIPS FROM APRIL & JUSTINA
01
Show it. Get a surprise gift for them.
Justina: I learn that getting a small gift for friends is such a powerful act. Just a little something will do. It’s a small reminder that you’re thinking of them.
02
Listen and be understanding.
Justina: I’m an Aries that is very straightforward with my thoughts and opinion. But through experiences, I know I need to be a better listener. It’s easy to quickly give our own opinion when friends share their struggles with us. But having the capability to hold our opinion and be an attentive listener is actually better in most situation. Sometimes friends don’t need our opinion, they just need our ears.
03
Accept that we are very different individual
April: We share a lot of similarities and common interests as closed friends but we are very different from each other. It’s very important to understand that and do not judge our friends even when they make decision that we don’t necessarily agree with. And having friends with different personalities and background is great! I’ve learnt a lot things from Justina because we are so different! I love it!
04
Take care of yourself and keep improving yourself
April: Adulthood is not easy. Everyone is busy. So I believe that taking care of ourselves is a great way of maintaining friendship. We do not need to come out or text each other all the time. Seeing and knowing that my friends are living a great life, I am happy for them!
“Don't belittle yourself. You can do this.”
I admire how focused and determined Justina is in her career. I am a perfectionist. But Justina taught me to not focus on the result and just do it. She gives me affirmation and tells me, “Don’t belittle yourself. You are great at this. You can do this.”
When I doubt on myself, I’d think of words that she said to me. Her words give me strength and confidence to move forward each time when I want to give up.
-APRIL
DO YOU DO THIS…
See the potential in your friend and give affirmation
More than often, we see the potential in our friends more than they do. Do you help friends to see the potential in themselves or to try out different styles?
With a simple line of affirmation, it encourages someone to look into their potential and grow into a better version of themselves.
Wow this dress looks nice on you / You are good in cooking / You have nice voice…
Justina: I wasn’t the outstanding one when I was in a bridal make up course. I was lack of confidence. I learnt this the hard way from my past experience. And now, whenever I get a chance, I’d give encouragement to people around me. Truly, I see how my friends get more confident and improve so fast after that. It’s simple act of encouragement. “Hey you are quite good in XYZ!” As simple as that.
Our words could impact someone’s lives with a timeframe that is longer than we could ever imagine. TODAY, Go and Tell that one friend what you see in him/her.
do you do this…
See the potential in your friend and give affirmation
More than often, we see the potential in our friends more than they do. Do you help friends to see the potential in themselves or to try out different styles?
With a simple line of affirmation, it encourages someone to look into their potential and grow into a better version of themselves.
Wow this dress looks nice on you / You are good in cooking / You have nice voice…
Justina: I wasn’t the outstanding one when I was in a bridal make up course. I was lack of confidence. I learnt this the hard way from my past experience. And now, whenever I get a chance, I’d give encouragement to people around me. Truly, I see how my friends get more confident and improve so fast after that. It’s simple act of encouragement. “Hey you are quite good in XYZ!” As simple as that.
Our words could impact someone’s lives with a timeframe that is longer than we could ever imagine. TODAY, Go and Tell that one friend what you see in him/her.
real friend, true love
3 Roles as a Friend
3 Roles as a friend
Role one
The Supporter / Cheerleader
“Some friends are irreplaceable because they stand by your side no matter the situation. They were there for the storms, when you navigated heartbreak, when you find your true passion and when you started rising into your power.” – Yung Pueblo.
We want friends who are truly happy for our success. Let each other evolve. No jealously. No judgement. Be that friend for your friends.
role two
The Analyst
We are all individuals, with different experiences and opinions. Having a best friend to share things with can help us learn new things about ourselves and bring a fresh perspective to our problem!
On another side, do understand that friends may want to listen to what we have to say, values our opinion, but still do something other than what we suggested. And it is fine! Share opinion and respect friends for the final decision that they make.
Role Three
The Listener
When friends come to you with their struggles, have you ever tried to not give comment, not share your opinion and just listen?
Not every problem needs a solution. Sometimes our friends just need to be heard. It’s a good practice to hold space for your friends to share their problems and NOT pour over the conversation with your thoughts or opinion.
Maybe you can ask the right questions that help them to hear their own thoughts. Ask them how they feel, why they do so or what is next for them. Be a good listener for your friends.
for you
99% of besties are NOT love at first sight
In a mature friendship or any relationship, it’s not about finding perfection in another person. It’s about the mutual connection you have with the friend who nourishes your wellbeing and who matches the type of support you’re looking for.
These kind of deep connections, by luck, could come naturally like love at first sight. But 99% of the time, it comes from efforts and communication. Don’t expect your friends to know what you like or how you feel without you telling them. Learn to communication and even to confront if needed.
At the same time, let’s practice to encourage your friends! Spread positivity, give affirmation, tell your friends that you’re proud of them. Be that friend that makes life brighter ✨
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Be booking your ideal clients and working on projects that bring high reward — both financially and creatively.
Increasing your average booking per client (Our students report an over 250% increase!).
Be able to clearly articulate what you do and who you do it for on demand confidently
Have a clear actionable plan in place for scaling your business and taking things to the next level.
Know what to post and what to say on Instagram so you can get on with it.
Be able to attract top-tier candidates to join your team and help build your biz.
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level-up my business!”
going to want to add the entire thing hear to really drive home how
awesome people think your course or product is.- SARAH
level-up my business!”
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